I got married in 1968. I had courted my wife for four years before that. I had met her when she was sixteen years old. It was several months before she let me feel her breasts but would not let me do more than that to them other than to occasionally kiss her nipples. If I moved my head to have a look at them she pulled my head down close to them so that I never got a close look at them. Often after we had been to the Cinema etc, we went back to my girlfriends home near Sunderland.. Often her mum and dad had gone to bed by then. It was part of our courtship that she masturbated me while her parents slept in the room upstairs.

 

One evening a few months afterwards we had been to the local cinema. We then went to a lay-by near beneath Penshaw Monument near to Sunderland to kiss and pet. My girlfriend, later to become my wife, Let me undo her bra to allow me to feel her breast unhindered. My penis then went much stiffer than it normally did on such occasions. She had her head on my chest and it was clear that she could see the shape of my erection bulging in my trousers. After a while I decided to take the risk and undid my zip and took my erection out. I never knew then what her reaction would be. She kept her head on my chest and I took one of her hands and placed it on my erection. I showed her how to masturbate it. It took her only a few minutes to make me ejaculate over the front of my trousers. The next time  a couple or so days later we did much the same thing at the same place. My girlfriend, now my wife, would only let me feel up to her pubic hair but only occasionally let me brush my hand against her pubic mound. I had many erotic experiences with her. One such erotic experience was when were on holiday with her parents near Holy Loch in Scotland and she went in for a swim. Her mother and father stayed in their car a few hundred yards away. I went down to the beach with her. She then wore a one piece bathing costume as was the fashion then. When she came out of the water, I could see the full shape of her vagina. There was a hint of pubic hair showing at the side of her bathing costume. I could make out much of the shape of her vagina. Years later she told me that she had been aware of that. On that occasion we were staying at a small guest house near to Dunoon, Scotland. My girlfriend slept in the same room as her parents with me sleeping over the landing in a small box room. That night as usual my girl friend came to see me in my room. I had just put my pyjamas on ready for bed. My girlfriend got on the bed with me and we started to kiss. Then she pulled my pyjama trousers down to my knees. Then she held me down while she took hold of my erect penis. That was the first time that she had seen me in that way with my pyjama pants pulled right down and me showing everything. She masturbated me for about ten minutes until I came with a fantastic ejaculation. She clearly wanted to see that happen. That sort of thing became the norm up until we married in 1968. She became an expert in male masturbation and knew what to do to make a man quickly ejaculate.

 

We were not able to have full sex  on our honeymoon night spent at a Guest House overlooking Lake Basenthwait. She masturbated me several times the two nights that we were unable to have full sex there. It had been her wrong time. On our wedding night, another couple who had been married that same day also stayed at the Guest House. One couple from Northumberland had the apartment adjoining ours.  Within about an hour we had heard them quite clearly having sex. That had turned us both on and my wife masturbated me while they were doing that. They very clearly had sex for at least three times that afternoon. Bill and Pat as we later came to know them by, were an attractive couple. Pat had more than ample breasts that had turned me on when I saw her in the breakfast room. Bill and Pat had gone for a dip at a small mountainside pool. Bill seemed to have a partial erection when he came out of the water. I saw my wife having a good look at it. Maybe he was just well bestowed in that department anyway?

 

On the third night, I went for a bath. My wife followed me afterwards. I sat on the bed waiting for her to return. When she came into the room she wore her dressing gown. I had undressed. We kissed and I lowered her onto the bed and we kissed.I slowly pulled her dressing gown open.  I then saw for the first time her bare breasts. I had waited for four years for this to happen. I pulled back intending to kneel over her and take in the few of her breasts. She was obviously still a bit embarrassed. She relaxed when I started to stroke them. Then I moved down and saw her full pubic bush for the first time. She reluctantly let me pull her legs apart to let me have a look have a good look at her vagina. We must have spent half an hour examining one another. She turned me on my tummy and eased my buttocks open. I knew then that she had wanted to see my bottom. I did the same to her but she was still showed reluctance to let me touch her anus. Eventually she let me do that while I had kissed her vagina. It took several years before she let me have sex in her bottom. That act felt so natural and was not in any way I thought obscene. More often our sex was by means of using her vagina.

 

On most mornings when we did have full sex, when time allowed indeed allowed that, she masturbated me in bed.  At times I also masturbated her in bed or she let me watch her masturbate.. We sometimes took video of us having sex or masturbating. 

 

About two years into our marriage, we started to go often to the Lake District. Our favourite place there was a small disused quarry just outside Grasmere. My wife often pulled my trousers down to my ankles and masturbated me there. On one occasion a woman watched from the rocks above the quarry while she masturbated me. My wife also saw her but kept on masturbating me until I ejaculated. On occasions we had sex in the car when it got dark. My wife would put the car interior light on and often stripped herself naked.  Most of the time I took was naked. My wife was fully aware of the possibility that someone might be watching us but that did not seem to matter to her.If she was just masturbating me, she then made sure the car interior light was on when I came.

 

At times we used to go to a Country Park a few miles from our home. We often had sex there in our car. One evening, I had taken my wife's  panties off. I also stripped naked. I opened her legs and started to fondle her vagina. Despite the years of doing that, seeing her in that way still turned me on. Then I saw a shadow at the car side window. I did not at first know how to react. My wife had also seen that shadow at the window as well. My wife was turned on by that and a little later so was I. Whoever was looking had a good close look at my wife's vagina and breasts. They could had a clear view of my erection and what my wife was doing with it. The face at the car window. a man, was clearly masturbating as he watched us playing around. I got on top of my wife and entered her. She was very clearly well and truly aroused by what the man was seeing us do. We often had sex in county parks or quiet moor places. Doing that enhanced our sex life a lot

 

One occasion when we had a caravan holiday next to a farm a few miles south of Appleby in Cumbria we saw that the caravan bedroom curtains did not quite reach the window ledge. The caravan had electricity linked up to it. We had heard a noise the previous night on the side of the caravan bedroom. The next morning I went around the side of the caravan, next to a rough stone wall adjoining it. The grass outside of the bedroom window was trampled down. We were sure then that someone had been watching us play around on the bed the previous night. That night my wife got undressed in the bedroom with its light switched on.I got undressed and we hugged one another. My penis did what nature intended it to do and it went very stiff. I lowered my wife onto the bed and then pulled her round so that the her bottom faced in the direction of the bedroom window. She opened her legs wide and let me touch her vagina for a while. She played with my erection. I opened her buttocks and exposed her anus to full view. I played around with it also for a while. She rubbed my erection on her bottom but would not let me have sex in that situation. Instead I came over her anus. I then masturbated my wife until she too came. My wife thinks that the man watching us may have been the farmer who owned the farmyard. We will never know who that was.